Written by Barbara J. Kirby,
Certified Professional Consultant on Aging (CPCA), Later Lifestyle Planner, Advocate, Navigator, SeniorsAdvocate●CA
2019-10-11 updated Nov 24, 2025

No, it's not too early, advance planning is a must!

You may not be thinking of the festive season yet, but don’t leave it too late if you’re a family caregiver for Mom, Dad, or your spouse. There’s a lot to keep in mind when managing care through the holiday season. Whether they live in residential long-term care or at home, ensuring their comfort while carving out a little time for yourself is essential.

When I think back to when my parents were alive, our last few Christmases together were chaotic, marked by logistical challenges. We were invited to my brother’s home for our traditional Christmas Eve dinner. I didn’t want to leave out either parent, but they lived in opposite directions across the city, with my brother in yet another area. Picture a pinwheel—we had to plan well in advance.